Welcome to Women Orgasm
Some people may think that it is easy to reach a women orgasm through intercourse. But having an orgasm with your partner can sometimes be tricky, yet for many couples, it is the focal point of each sexual experience.
Sometimes reaching an intense orgasm can be so frustrating, but ironically, sometimes you don’t need to try hard to achieve orgasm, you just need to relax yourself and stop thinking “orgasm! Orgasm!! Orgasm!!” throughout sex. But nonetheless, reaching an intense orgasm does take some effort. Don’t stress yourself and your partner out or else you will both be left feeling inadequate and disconnected if the big moment doesn’t pan out.
First, relax yourself and don’t think about your ultimate goal of having sex is orgasim, just focus on the idea that you can have ecstatic sex even without orgasim. That means both of you! At this point, men always have a difficult notion in their mind to let go of, this is because a man’s sexual experience is about orgasim at the end of the day, not to mention the fact that he desperately wants to please his partner. Guys, just try to let go of that intense focus on the goal, I’m sure it helps the performance anxiety decreases and you are more present in your body.
Let loose of yourself and enjoy the intimacy of being close to your partner and let your partner’s hands roaming all over your body, it will be a pleasurable sensation I promise! Sometimes you might feel yourself becoming a spectator and getting out of the moment or maybe being isolated. Well don’t be so pessimistic about it, you can still get back to the present by zeroing in on a particular physical sensation, like the way his mouth feels on yours or how his skin feels underneath your body. The rapport that is generated by your mutual affection and sensuality is so much more than the sum of its parts, so don’t hesitate to enjoy every touch, kiss, and caress for what it is…rather than trying to achieve orgasim as quickly as possible.
Stop picturing a big Hollywood moment in which you both reach orgasim at the same time during intercourse. A golden achievement in the bedroom equals to simultaneous orgasms, if you wish to have this kind of feeling keep going during intercourse, be sure that you and your partner have mastered the unique of orgasim before making that the goal for both of you.
Don’t give you and your partner too much pressure. We always have different expectations for orgasm, and this is why reaching orgasms are an issue for so many people! Sex is a failure without orgasm, every time we think we have to reach orgasm or that each orgasm has to be extremely intense and achieved in perfect harmony with our partner. Chill out! There’s no such thing as you must achieve orgasm through intercourse, just enjoy the moment of having sex together sentimentally.
Do remember that orgasms are not all created equal. Out of 100 percent, there is only 30 percent of women experience orgasms from sex alone. The reason behind this is because many sex positions don’t stimulate the main female hot spots, such as the clitoris and the G-spot. Stimulate the clitoris before, during or after intercourse, might help women orgasm more easily. Sometimes you’ll reach orgasm, sometimes you won’t. In fact, sometimes the orgasm will be so powerful and intense that it will feel as if every cell in your body has come alive and want more from it, while other times the orgasm might not as intense as you want it to be. Remember, not all orgasms will have the same best result as the previous one, but they can be enough to satiate your desire and keep you rapport with your partner and your sexuality.