Welcome to Orgasim
It is true that women body is so complicated and mysterious when it comes to sex and orgasim. I’m sure that there are still a lot of women out there who don’t understand their anatomy or sexual response, need not to surprise that men are even more baffled about what makes a woman tick sexually. What make us men and women complicate with sex and orgasm? The answers are myths and urban legends, these misinformation only further complicates a man’s understanding of the female body.
Here are the top-ten female-orgasm myths that many men still believe:
Intercourse Always Lead To Orgasm
Men would think that intercourse always lead to orgasm. But the truth is intercourse alone usually does not lead to orgasm. Only 30% of women reach orgasm from intercourse alone. What about the 70% of women that doesn’t reach orgasm from intercourse? The rest need added clitoral stimulation to achieve pleasure.
Position Doesn’t Matter
No, that’s not true! Position really does matter! It helps make female orgasm much more likely, such as woman-on-top, as it gives her the added clitoral stimulation she needs to reach orgasm.
Women Need No Effort To Reach Orgasm
Pornography and Hollywood movies forsake the importance of foreplay before getting women to reach orgasm. They make both men and women thought that the female orgasm seem effortless and straightforward. However, the truth is that most women need up to 20 minutes to become aroused and orgasmic. This is why foreplay plays an important role on orgasm part.
Replace Your Man With Vibrator / Dildo
Sex aids give a pleasure intimate feeling to your partner. It can help to greatly improve your partner’s sexual experience as well. However, vibrators/dildos are not a replacement for a man. The outcome of using sex aids won’t achieve the same feelings of intimacy and pleasure.
Quickies Are “No! No!” For Women
Quickies don’t mean that they aren’t giving any fun or pleasure to their partners and also don’t mean that they couldn’t serve a purpose in their relationship. Most men can reach orgasm faster than a woman, if you can’t have a full-on sex session a quickie can keep you bonded and close for the time being.
Condoms Ruin Intimate Mood and Delay Orgasms
Recent advancement has made condoms thinner and less noticeable compared with the old times. So, get the right one, and do the right thing!
Guys Can Tell If A Woman Is Faking
Not really! But some women really deserve an Oscar for their acting performances. However, it’s not good to fake an orgasm because this brings to cheating, and cheating will ruin the intimate mood as well. Communicate more! Ask your partner if she likes what you are doing or if she needs a different touch to reach orgasim. It helps to bring both of you to the next level.
Women Like Soft And Gentle Sex
Well, maybe sometimes they do, but sometimes they also want sex that is more intense, animalistic and wild. Work it out together and explore that side of your partner’s fantasies by asking her what she wants and taking the lead. Communication plays an important role for you and your partner to achieve an orgasm!
Women Achieve Multiple Orgasms Easily
Women don’t need a refractory period before they can be orgasmic again. Guys may think that is how it should be. However, it’s not always easy to achieve one orgasm, let alone many! Hence, while some women are multi-orgasmic, not every woman knows how to handle a multi-orgasim. Practice makes perfect!
The Ultimate Goal Of Sex Is To Have An Orgasm
You must not have the wrong mindset when you are having sex. Never think that orgasm is the destination or final goal for having sex. Sex is about the journey and being in the moment. Focus on what’s on the bed with you. Yes! Your partner! Stay attuned to your partner’s body and the sensations of closeness and passion, and let it respond naturally. Let your orgasm and hers happen when they happen. Everyone must remember that there is no “right” time or way to achieve an orgasm. Every human being’s body and every orgasm is unique.