How To Make Her Orgasm
Welcome to How To Make Her Orgasm
There are lots of common ways that we know how women can have orgasm, like stimulating the clitoris, the G-spot, A-spot, U-spot and so on. But guys do you know how to make her orgasm and after that she’s asking for more? Here are some tips to help you out!
Single-Minded Is A “NO”
Ladies if you wanted to reach for more orgasms, you must first tune in to the mind-body connection. Never ever limit yourself to expect for more orgasm! If you limit your expectation, you’ll actually cause your body and mind to limit its pleasure responses. For an easy understanding, if you assume you can only achieve orgasm for once during intercourse…you will.
Here’s the reason why getting to know more about your frame of body and mind is so important. Don’t try to switching off yourself mentally and sexually after you’ve achieved orgasm for the first time. Normally this is what you do when you assume you’ve reached the finale. NO! Don’t think like that, you need to remain expectant and open to further arousal. You can rest for awhile and continue for more. You must get to know that your body is fully capable, even built, to experience deeper, longer, and more frequent orgasms.
When you adapt with the right attitude, the next thing you should do is make sure you have some time on your hands. Women always think that if they achieve multiple orgasms when they have intercourse is actually happen by chance or that is some sort of fluke, but that is one of the biggest mistake they’ve made. Yet like anything else, they require effort and planning that you don’t get from on the run quickies. If you not in the right condition to be able to relax and enjoy yourself with your man, there is no point getting mentally geared up for the extra action.
And finally, make your guy joins you on a mattress mission…kind of. He won’t just get that you’re in the mood for something that last longer or more drawn out. But rather than turning him on by mentioning the word multiple, deliver your guy a carnal challenge he can get excited about. Give him some hints that tonight you want to feel the slow burn. And to get that, you have to draw out foreplay, and you must have a few ideas in mind for the main event too. This way, you create a situation where he’s keen to please, and also he’s eagerly anticipating your direction too.
Sexercises Is Needed!
Sometimes you need some ultimate down-there workout motivator. There is one crucial component to achieve multiple orgasms, by having a strong PC (pubococcygeus) muscles. The Kegel muscles which surround the vaginal canal are the ones that withhold the urine.
Orgasm is actually an intense contraction of your PC and pelvic floor muscles, strengthening your PC and pelvic floor muscles will increases blood flow to the specific areas and enables you to encounter a deeper pleasure sensation and a repeated series of pulses.
By now, you know the Kegels trick. Bend the muscles until you feel them getting tighter. And then release it. And again tighten it. But there’s a twist that can surpass your previous orgasm you had achieved, this will only take a minute. It’s called the Pelvic Connecting Crunch, and compare to others, it’s a more effective sexercise because it uses your transverse abdominals and inner thighs to engage the PC muscles and get it to work harder.
Here’s how to do it! You need to start by lying on your back with knees bent and feet on the floor. Put something like a spongy ball, between your inner parts of your thighs. Engage Kegels by concentrating on bringing them in, back and forth. Take a breath and feel the tension extend up your stomach and spine. Next step, try to lift your head and shoulders a bit off the ground and hold the position for 10 seconds. Once your PCs are in best shape, learn to use them to your advantage during sex. So, when the time is right during sex, the moment you feel that first contraction of orgasm, grab that chance! Don’t let it slip away! Continue pumping your muscles in small bursts to create the wave and also create momentum for the next series of intense orgasmic contractions. This way, you use your newly discovered strength to move forward and far beyond the initial climax and into the pleasurable realm beyond.
You Need Mini Time-Out!
Guys! Once you know how to make her orgasm and had orgasm for the first time, let your partner rest for awhile. You’re partner probably felt like pulling away from you because her body is so sensitive to your touch. After an orgasm, a lot of nerve pathways in her body have been stimulated, and her blood flow will be in a tremendous surge. So it’s completely natural and understandable for some women to want to take a mini time-out from stimulation in those moments instead of going for another round.
But here’s the difference between a drop session that ends with a happy ending and one that continues on to multiple peaks. If she fall into an astonishing pleasure coma, she’s done! If she resume touching an area that is not hypersensitive, she is ready! She must give her vaginal area a break for a minute, and have you do other stuffs like sucking her fingers, kiss her or caress her breasts. The stroking in other areas will keep her nerves and sensual energy on high alert and sensitive while her inferior regions cool off just enough to take your caresses all over again.
Do remember, she don’t want to entirely end on intimate contact. Otherwise, she’ll have to re-work harder to get to another higher state of arousal. So maintain the caressing until she feel that hypersensitivity lessen and the heat returning to her moan zone.